Dental advice wanted – Dental Phobia
I’m 42 years old and haven’t visited the dentist since my late teens. The last time was when the dentist actually snapped an anaesthetic needle in my gum while performing a filling. This has led to me having such a fear of dentists. I can’t even mention the word to my wife without feeling sick. As soon as someone mentions teeth in a discussion I completely evade the whole situation as that itself makes me feel extremely anxious. The thought of visiting a dentist or even driving past one has the same effect.
I have finally come to the conclusion that I need to get to the dentist as I have had enough of both the pain that I am in and also the look of my teeth. This weekend I actually ended up lancing an abscess myself due to the pain I was in. I have half a tooth missing in the front, a molar chipped and half missing down to the gum in the rear another chipped tooth down to the nerve in one side and also a tooth protruding over a canine that never fell out when I was a child. All in all it’s pretty depressing and has come to a head lately as my 4 year old son is asking questions with regards to why my front tooth is half missing and is also black.
I evade family photos as I can’t smile and when I do smile or laugh I have to try and pull a strange face keeping my upper lip down over my front teeth. Every time I eat it’s a case if or when my next tooth will chip or something else goes wrong. If I could go to sleep tonight and wake up with dentures in the morning then that would be a dream come true.
My question is, are there any leaflets, websites online discussion groups or helplines that could help me with my anxiety with regards to even walking into a dentist.
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